Be Awesome – But Not At Everything

This just in! Science* concludes that human people can only be awesome at five life categories at a time. Pick and choose, but don't try to be awesome in all categories at all times. You. Will. Go. Bonkers. Sometimes good enough is good enough. Example categories: Progressive mom Awesome wife / partner Sex kitten Great … Continue reading Be Awesome – But Not At Everything

What’s So Perfect about Being Perfect?

Seems like I need a daily reminder of the distinction between excellence and perfection. Excellence is solid. It’s grounded. It comes from inside you. It calls for good posture, shoulders back, sharp focus and an inner smile. It summons your strengths, talents and gifts and it calls for you to SHINE. Excellence knows when things … Continue reading What’s So Perfect about Being Perfect?

Let’s Lighten Up, Friends!

Today I'm inclined to take my YogiTea bag message as universal truth. "The purpose of life is to enjoy every moment." What if it really were this simple? What if we could experiment with life and play and help make the world a better place and enjoy vacations and love our kids and be present … Continue reading Let’s Lighten Up, Friends!

Can’t Remember Facts? Me Neither. And I’ll Never Judge You.

    Like it was yesterday, I remember the day I realized that my brain does not retain facts. Boston, 1995. I was 25. My new boyfriend at the time was the kind of person who could - and I'm sure still can - read an article or watch a show and file away the … Continue reading Can’t Remember Facts? Me Neither. And I’ll Never Judge You.

The Sweetest Week: Revving Up for 2016

To borrow a sporting term, the week between Christmas and New Year's is a "bye week." As the rotation goes, it's a week to watch the big game on TV, rather than suiting up. For all intents and purposes, 2015 is a wrap. With a few exceptions, folks find themselves without significant work or goals … Continue reading The Sweetest Week: Revving Up for 2016

What Good Can Come Of This?

Years ago when I was going through a really hard time, one of my dearest friends taught me a question that got me through sleepless nights and has since served me well. "What good can come of this?" It's a hard question to ask yourself when things seem quite impossibly "bad." But it's worth it. … Continue reading What Good Can Come Of This?

Monica & David

Yesterday I was all tied up in knots about a health issue concerning someone that I love dearly. Worry. Worry. Worry. What if... There's a possibility that... Some really dark thoughts started to enter. Yes, I know from worrying. I come from a long, long line of worriers on both sides of my beautiful family. Maybe … Continue reading Monica & David